Thursday 31 July 2014

A Long Way Down // Nick Hornby


A trip to Nottingham before I went abroad in search of some much needed sun and heat and churros and ice cold coke (mmmmmm) ended up with me purchasing 'A Long Way Down' by Nick Hornby from the Oxfam Book & Music shop, because I can't go to Nottingham and definitely not the Oxfam there without buying a book. Slightly off topic but if you are a keen reader and you get through books rather like Usain Bolt sprints like a lightning bolt through his races, and as much as you'd love to buy books from major book stores you find the prices rather hard on your purse/ wallet, I would highly recommend heading to your local Oxfam in particular in search of books. 

I can't stress to you how many times I've been into an Oxfam and come away with some really great reads for just £1.99 to £2.49, which would cost me at least £6.99 from major book stores, and the best bit is that whilst you get yourself a good read or two (or three) your money is helping people who really need it, and isn't that just the most wonderful thing ever? I used to volunteer at Oxfam in Derby and I know for fact that in the stock room they have mountains of books, many of them best sellers or written by popular authors, and from so many different genres as well. There's just so much to choose from and it means that you can read more books and 'expand your literary horizons' for so much less and who doesn't love that?

But back to the whole point of this post, Nick Hornby's 'A Long Way Down' is just one product of an Oxfam venture (if you love Nick Hornby you can normally find a good range of his fabulous novels at an Oxfam btw, little heads up for ya there), and boy am I glad that I bought this little gem of a book. I'd only heard of it because during some trip to the cinema a while ago I watched a trailer for the film version and I thought that the whole concept sounded rather interesting and unique, so I made a mental note and when I happened to stumble across said novel at Oxfam I knew that I had to buy it. Now I know that 'A Long Way Down' came out almost ten years ago, so this review is like not only missing the bandwagon when it came into town but only realising that you missed it TEN YEARS AFTER IT CAME BY. But in my defence I was only nine when this novel came out, and I definitely wasn't the target audience, as you'll now appreciate given the next paragraph.

So as you may or may not know, 'A Long Way Down' centres around four people who meet on New Years Eve at the top of 'Toppers House', a well known London suicide spot, where they've each gone with the intent of ending their lives before the year is out. We begin by meeting Martin Sharp, a former television presenter whose life, career, family and all, is in tatters after some rather ill informed decisions on his part. As he prepares himself to take the plunge, he is interrupted by Maureen, a religious 51 year old single parent of a highly disabled son who is in a vegetative state, and who is desperate to end it all yet suffers from overwhelming guilt at the thought of leaving behind her son and doing wrong by God. 

It isn't long before they're interrupted by 18 year old larger than life personality Jess, who is heartbroken after being dumped by her boyfriend, living in a family that is still struggling to cope with the sudden disappearance of eldest daughter Jen, and constantly getting herself into sticky situations. And finally the trio becomes a quartet when American JJ ventures to the top of Toppers House in the hopes of ending everything after breaking up with his girlfriend and the break up of his beloved band, both of which leave him feeling like both he and his life have no purpose. The story then evolves along with the 'Toppers Four', as they call themselves, and we join them in the journey that ensues thereafter, from appearing in national newspapers to Martin's TV programme, jetting abroad to Tenerife and trying to both overcome and fix the issues weighing them down and figure out where these obstacles and problems lie in the first place.

I wasn't sure what to expect when I first picked up the novel, having unsuccessfully attempted to read Hornby before, however I can hand on heart say that this novel is one of the best books I've ever read and I've completely fallen in love with Hornby. The narrative is split between Martin, Maureen, Jess and JJ who each take it in turn to describe events and fill us in on both their own backgrounds and each others, helping us to build up an accurate idea of who these people are, why they ended up on Toppers House and why they behave and act as they do. I thought it was a different and really effective way, on Hornby's part, of showing just how close these people, forever tied together by how they met, and how not only their stories and lives, but they as people are interlinked. When reading you get a real sense of the solidarity that is shared between these four people and the strength of their friendship, and it's rather a joy to be welcomed into the centre of it all. 

The story is sad at times, and obviously the subject matter itself is very serious and perhaps controversial as in 'A Long Way Down' Hornby is introducing us to people who have come very close to ending their lives and inviting us into their minds whilst they remain in their most troubled state. However what I love most about this book is that despite that, we get a very realistic and very funny story that allows the topic of depression to become less of a taboo or something to be feared and tucked away. It's discussed openly and truthfully, and it's endearing to see both how many people are actually in the same boat, battling their own demons alone, as it makes you realise that everyone has problems they're trying to overcome, and how sharing your problems with other people means you no longer have to hide or be afraid, because people will understand and try and support you and make you feel better in their own little way. 

I loved watching how the characters laid all their cards on the table and opened themselves up to each other, and how they then tried to support and help each other in that way that only humans can, where you're staring a massive problem in the face and realise there isn't a whole lot you can do, so you just do what little you can. You laugh, you fight and argue, you come up with far fetched, crazy, wonderfully silly ideas in the hope that something, anything, just might work, and you pick each other up should those plans fail, and carry on together, fuelled by the hope that you'll get there in the end.

This book is just simply wonderful.
It's lead by honest characters that feel so real you almost can't imagine them not existing somewhere in the world. They're funny, they're incredibly likeable, flaws and all, and the story itself is so utterly bonkers and beautiful and endearing, what with the way it's told and how it approaches a difficult subject matter and turns it into something that can be dealed with and overcome, albeit in an undeniably British manner. It's a delightful read, and whilst Hornby serves you laughs and craziness and a wonderfully amusing story, he also helps you to make sense of life, appreciate it in all its imperfections and leaves you feeling like you can face just about anything.


Fairy Lights


This weekend me, my mum and my sister walked down to our local DIY/ Home/ Garden/ You get the idea store to have a nosey. My sister, for some reason, has decided to make it her mission this summer to turn our garden into a fairy light paradise with plants, flowers and bushes dripping with a bonanza of fairy lights.
Therefore we ended up coming away with a pack of 150 fairy lights which my sister then spent the best part of Saturday evening draping artistically around the garden, and I can't say that I don't like it because I would be lying my pants off. I RUDDY LOVE IT, and I challenge anyone to not like fairy lights, because they're so beautiful and magical and wonderful and twinkly that to not love them is practically impossible.

So to celebrate the beauty of fairy lights (cos they tha bestiest'), here are some photos to make you swooon.


Don't you just feel so much happier now? :)


Tuesday 29 July 2014

Summer Sale-ing

Two words: summer sales. 

Yes it's that time of year again when all the shops display their finest garments and at tantalizingly good prices too in order to get you reaching for your purse and drawing out the dollar, even when you really know you shouldn't. And of course I know that it's meant to be summer, and its July, and the temperatures are hovering around the twenties, the BBQ's are out, vast amounts of ice cream are being consumed and we're all looking as tanned as we're probably going to get. And I know that it therefore seems rather strange to be on the hunt for clothes for autumn and winter when they are safely at arms length for now anyway. 

But, right now is actually the perfect time to be doing that, no matter how frustrating it maybe be to be trying on jumpers and coats when you're 100% in the summer mindset and the temperatures are thirty degrees outside, as I found the other week. And what with living in the UK, where summer seems to exit the building just as quickly as it arrived, the need to prepare sufficiently for autumn and winter is one need that you unfortunately can't ignore, however it's a task that's all the more appealing when you realise what massive bargains you could be getting. 

This year the fashion Gods must have been shining down on me because the clothes I'm about to tell you about now would have cost me over £100 had I bought them all at full price, but a bit of nifty summer sales shopping and a whole lot of luck meant they only cost me twenty eight quid and I still can't believe it now.

Of course navigating those endless rails stuffed silly with clothes is a long and laborious process, and quite a few people I know don't even bother trying because of it, but I am one of those stupidly optimistic people that thinks that this time might be the time that I find something amazing and with an equally amazing price tag to match. And you can't deny that finding something like that is just the best feeling everrrrrrr, so much so that you have to brag about your suave and sophisticated bargain hunting skills to everyone you know. 

When looking in the sales, my advice would be to firstly have an idea of what garments you might need replenishing, eg. dresses for nights out, jumpers for those cold winter nights, a nice new pair of boots, a winter coat that actually keeps you warm, a new pair of trousers etc. and when in store target these rails first. Secondly be prepared to look at the sizes either side of your normal size because you then give yourself more options and chances of finding a bargain (woooooo). Thirdly giving into temptation is not a sin in this instance, because rather annoyingly, almost every purchase is justifiable when it's five to twenty pounds cheaper than it would've been pre-sale. Therefore if you see something you like in the sale, go try it on because if it fits and it looks good and it's cheap, then it's so worth it! And fourthly, don't stress, don't let yourself get overwhelmed, try everything on if possible and just have fun :)

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NUMBER ONE
ITEM: Cream crocheted jumper
WHERE FROM: H&M
BARGAIN: £15 to £5
SAVING: £10
I BOUGHT IT BECAUSE: It's lightweight therefore I can still wear it in summer, the knit is high quality and very comfortable, it's a neutral colour and thus goes with so many different colours and prints, it falls to the waist ie. not too long or short and a shirt underneath and coat on top means it can also been worn in colder weather.

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NUMBER TWO
ITEM: Light grey cropped jersey jumper
WHERE FROM: Pull & Bear
BARGAIN: £15 to £8
SAVING: £7
I BOUGHT IT BECAUSE: Again it's lightweight, the fabric is so comfortable, it can be worn day and night and is particularly good for summer, it's cropped which means it goes well with high-waisted shorts and trousers which suit my body shape, and I like the whole jersey feel to it and the neutral light grey colour, as it means I can wear it with lots of different things.

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NUMBER THREE
ITEM: Black jumper with silver metallic print
WHERE FROM: H&M
BARGAIN: £15 to £5
SAVING: £10
I BOUGHT IT BECAUSE: It's slightly longer in length and so looks really good with leggings, the neckline is slightly wider which I really like for some reason, the fabric is sooooooo comfortable and cosy like you never want to take it off, black goes with lots of other colours and prints and the silver metallic pattern is so intricate and gorgeous.

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NUMBER FOUR
ITEM: Black crop top with lace detailing
WHERE FROM: H&M
BARGAIN: £12 to £5
SAVING: £7
I BOUGHT IT BECAUSE: I needed more clothes for nights out and the design of this top means it can be worn with so many different things with the lace detail making it look more elegant, the fabric is stretchy and it covers my boobs well so I still feel classy (yay), again it can be worn with high waisted shorts, skirts and trousers which compliment my figure well and lastly it makes my shoulders look feminine instead of butch, which is normally a problem I have due to my broad shoulders!!!

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NUMBER FIVE
ITEM: Light blue 'angolia' knit jumper
WHERE FROM: Topshop
BARGAIN: £46 to £5
SAVING: £41 (I can't believe it either!!!!)
I BOUGHT IT BECAUSE: I couldn't not buy it, it's a size 16 whereas I'm normally a 12 so it actually makes for the perfect oversized jumper, the knit is such high quality and so comfy and beautiful, the colour is perfect and so versatile, the knit isn't too heavy or too light, and like I said, IT WAS SUCH AN AMAZING BARGAIN (the girl on the till said so too) SO I JUST HAD TO GET IT!!!

So yes, as you can see, it really is bargains galore out there in the shopping jungle, and it just goes to show that a little bit of time, effort, digging and money can go a very long way.

Kasabian // Naughty Boy // Ed Sheeran


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Today I want to rave to you lovely people about some of my favourite songs gracing the airwaves at the moment, because I love music so much so that I just can't keep my passion within me. I want to share it with the masses because music is life and what is life without music because I have no idea and I don't think I ever want to find out.

Music is something amazing. It's magical, it's glorious, it's wonderful, and with so many genres to choose from these days we really are spoiled for choice, and my top three today just goes to show this, and with that, here they are...

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1) BUMBLEBEE, KASABIAN

I remember hearing this song for the first time a couple of weeks ago and it had the exact same impact on me as predecessor 'Eez-Eh' did a few months previously. I don't know what Kasabian got up to in the studio when making new album '48:13', and I don't know ingredients they used, when all four of them sat down together to begin the album, to concoct the magic that this album possesses, but whatever they got up to and whatever they did, this album is positively electric. 

There's literally no other word for it. It's unlike anything else I've ever heard in my life. 
It still possesses that magnificent and powerful Kasabian grandeur that they are known for, the sort of music that seems to be bigger than life itself and almost makes you feel like you're part of something else entirely when you listen to it, but it takes it to a whole new other level. And that's probably why the likes of 'Eez-Eh' and now 'Bumblebeee' make for such insanely amazing listening experiences.

'Bumblebeee' in particular is just this massive, explosive, crazy, energy fueled beast of a song that shakes, vibrates and lurches around for it's entire four minute duration without ever stopping and then it spits you out on the other side feeling breathlessly alive. It's just magic, and by god I can only begin to imagine what it sounds like live. It's the sort of song that reminds you of just why music carries the impact that it does and I hope Kasabian know, which I'm sure they do, that in '48:13' they have created a collection of music that they can be mighty proud of.

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2) HOME, NAUGHTY BOY FT SAM ROMANS

Oooooh now I really really really love this song. 
Produced by the insanely and diversely talented Londoner Naughty Boy, who is just some sort of music master placed on this Earth by the music Gods, and featuring the gorgeous, soulful, engaging and slightly Sam Smith esque vocals of the equally talented Sam Romans, 'Home' is, to put it simply, one amazing song.

It's got a classic, gorgeous, old school feel, it's got this chilled, laid back groove and momentum that carries it along and it's one of those songs that seems to make perfect sense. It's like you just know that the construction of 'Home' was done by someone who knows exactly what they're doing, and it's someone who is capable of taking all the individual segments, from the vocals, the percussion, the beats, the instruments, the tempo and assembling them together in exactly the right order for maximum effect. 

And that person is Naughty Boy, of course. 
I think everybody must have heard of him by now, what with his growing collection of chart smashers, and that's the reason why I think hearing 'Home' is such a pleasant surprise, because it's a deserving chart success in it's own right yet it's whole sound and vibe and approach is so different from anything that we've heard from Naughty Boy before. Of course there are links of similarity, but 'Home' is just something else entirely and it's so refreshing and promising to see that it comes from someone who you wouldn't expect, as well as showcasing Naughty Boy's fantastic versatility as an artist.

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3) THINKING OUT LOUD, ED SHEERAN

Last week I was watching late night MTV because although I knew that I ought to get to bed, I just had to peruse the music channels right then and there. And because of this, I stumbled across Zane Lowe's brand new series called 'Soundchain', in which he interviews a series of different artists to get to the root of where it all began for them in terms of musical influences, so say for example it began with the Backstreet Boys which then lead to Oasis, maybe, possibly, okay maybe not, but you get the idea.

Now this particular episode of 'Soundchain' happened to focus on the super talented Ed Sheeran, who has just released his second and highly anticipated album 'Multiply', the follow up to the insanely successful 'Plus'. And it is through this that I discovered one of many gems on Ed's new album, 'Thinking Out Loud' and boy am I glad I did. 

It's much more like the sound of Ed's previous album and early EP songs, what with the soulful guitar, the impassioned vocals that hold such gorgeous emotional depth and those simply beautiful lyrics that are always so detailed, intelligent and fueled by a witty and empathetic mind such as Ed's. 
'Thinking Out Loud' has got life, it's got huge amounts of soul and passion and it's an ode to love both old and young that you just know you'll be playing twenty, thirty, maybe even forty years down the line. It's just such a gorgeous song, and when Ed's smooth vocals bring the lyrics to life you can't help but be infected but that tidal wave of (happy) emotions too. 

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Monday 28 July 2014

Cara Delevingne Topshop A/W 2014

The 21-year-old poses in ads for the company's Autumn/Winter 2014 collection

I've just found out that the absolutely wonderful and beautiful and crazily cool model of the moment Cara Delevingne is the face of Topshop's Autumn Winter 2014 campaign, and in doing so is the first model to lead the campaign entirely on her own. 

I love Cara because she's just so down to earth and although she has those amazing model looks, she also has one heck of an amazing personality and I'm forever wishing that I could be her friend *cry cry cry*. And so to celebrate Cara's new endeavour, here are the photos from the campaign for you to peruse...

Model Cara Delevingne has been unveiled as the new face of British fashion brand, Topshop
Model Cara DelevingneModel Cara Delevingne
The campaign was shot in London by photographer Alasdair McLellan
Model Cara DelevingneModel Cara Delevingne has been unveiled as the new face of British fashion brand, Topshop
Topshop's creative director Kate Phelan said: 'Cara is a true Topshop girl. Her style is confident and playful.'
She is the first model to appear solo in a Topshop campaignThe 21-year-old poses in ads for the company's Autumn/Winter 2014 collection
Model Cara Delevingne has been unveiled as the new face of British fashion brand, TopshopThe 21-year-old poses in ads for the company's Autumn/Winter 2014 collection

They See Me Roadin'...

Roadtrips.
Aren't they wonderful? I don't know about you but I've always longed to go on a spontaneous roadtrip before, one of those 'lets wake up in the morning and hop in the car and see where the mood takes us, accompanied by some epic tuneage and snacks galore' kind of roadtrips. And now that some of my friends can drive, and a couple of them have a car (it's still exciting), it's looking like a possibility. 

The only 'roadtrip' I've done, ie. trip that involved spontaneity, or the only one I can think of right now, is when my friend picked me and another friend up in her car, and then we picked up another friend whilst rapping to Jay Z and 2 Chainz and Kanye. Then we went on the motorway and did more of the same before stopping firstly so that my friend could buy WKD and Smirnoff Ice (classy ladies) and secondly for a chinese takeaway, all of it very spontaneous, just like good ol' Harry Bright in Mamma Mia. Then we went back to hers and went out to Rock City in Nottingham, but that's another story...
So yeah not, that interesting, but if you had the chance to go on a spontaneous roadtrip, where would you go?

Obviously a roadtrip around the good ol' USA would be amaaaaaazing and out of this world and enlightening for the soul, but if you're thinking a bit closer to home, here's what I'd do...

*please note that although the UK is the midget of all countries, it still takes time to get from one end
of the country to another so remember to spread it out across a few days ;)

1) Edinburgh during the Fringe Festival and catch a few shows and go explore the fabulous castle 
and streets.

2) Newcastle to see the amazing Baltic Art Museum by the Quayside and grab
a cup of tea in one of the beautiful cafes in the beautiful buildings there before hitting the beach.

3) Manchester to do some shopping at the Trafford Arndale centres and have a nosey before popping over to Liverpool to see all the Beatles stuff and exploring the Albert Dock area.

4) Bristol during the Hot Air Balloon festival, explore the city and count all the Gromit dogs, drive along the 
Clifton Suspension Bridge, sit by the docks, and then go to Za Za Bazaars for a mega feast.

5) Torquay and sit on the green with some fish and chips, or have cream tea before heading to the beach 
for an early evening dip.

6) Derbyshire, my home county, for an exploration of the Peak District before heading to Matlock Bath 
to enjoy the seaside-not-seaside atmosphere and Bakewell for, you guessed it, a Bakewell Tart.

7) Brighton seafront and city is a must do, as is the Seven Oaks Country Park which is just gorgeous. 

8) Padstow in Cornwall is lovely, especially if you go out over the cliffs where you can see the beaches 
and have a drink as the sun sets.

9) York is awesome and so unique and quirky; you can entertain yourself for hours exploring
all the quirky shops and cafes as well as admiring the amazing cathedral and walking the city walls.

Obviously there are soooooo many other amazing places to visit in Britain, especially this summer,
I haven't even begun to see the half of them, but I hope this guide gives you some ideas and hopefully I'll see you out there in Blighty, 'roadin' too.
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